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Episodes

April 30, 2024

88: School: Angry kids, bad behaviour, and school avoidance. What can parents and teachers do?

Send us a text Nearly one in five teachers in England has been hit by a pupil this year , according to a BBC survey. But it's not just in England. Stricter school discipline is making a comeback to Australian classrooms in a ...

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April 23, 2024

87: Where’s my village? The stress of parenting in the ‘sandwich generation’.

Send us a text My aunt and uncle provide a huge amount of free childcare so that their son and daughter-in-law can work, but many say that's not been their experience. The Boomers have become notorious as a generation who are...

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April 16, 2024

86: Perfectionism: Help your teen, and yourself, overcome the need to be perfect.

Send us a text Nobody likes making mistakes, but some of us find it much harder than others. Whilst most of us look on with admiration at the kid who's prepared to keep working until they do things perfectly, underlying that ...

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April 9, 2024

85: Money: Giving teens and tweens an allowance. Two years on my daughter talks about how it’s impacted her.

Send us a text What we give our kids to spend, and when, is a perennial problem for all parents. Money is a really tricky topic in any relationship; behind it lurks power, responsibility, and freedom. When our kids hit their ...

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April 2, 2024

84: Fun: Having fun with our teens, and the bonding power of laughter.

Send us a text Many teenagers say their relationship with their parents is very stressful and they yearn to be able to get along better. They often feel that their parents are on their case all of the time and that they never...

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March 26, 2024

83: Resilience: Growing Resilience In Teens, or GRIT. An interview with Dr Louise Randall

Send us a text Grit is the ability to keep going toward a goal, even in spite of significant obstacles and distractions. It's a very apt name for the charity created by Dr Louise Randall, who was seeing many kids coming into ...

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March 19, 2024

82: Concentration, and the troubling effect of too many choices

Send us a text Does a goldfish have a longer attention span than us humans - as a Microsoft study found - or do we believe the latest study on concentration which says adults have actually increased in their ability to pay a...

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March 12, 2024

81: Eldest daughter 'syndrome' and the trouble with parentification.

Send us a text The hashtag #eldestdaughtersyndrome is reported to have had a whopping 24.7 million views on TikTok, and counting, but what is it and why is it getting so much attention? We look at the issues faced by the elde...

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March 5, 2024

80: Taking things personally, coping with adversity, teen love and changing our minds when we get new information.

Send us a text Sometimes it's good to talk about our own challenges. The occasional chat in which we discuss the sorts of things we've been facing can help to dispel any myths that other people have got things sorted, and can...

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Feb. 27, 2024

79: Manners: Parenting to help teens succeed in life by teaching the importance of good manners.

Send us a text Many teens roll their eyes if they hear people talking about manners. The concept sounds old fashioned - like something that should be relegated to the Victorian past - but often what they're thinking about is ...

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Feb. 20, 2024

78: Admitting our mistakes - talking to our kids about our own sex and drugs and rock and roll teen years.

Send us a text We've all got a past, but telling our kids about what happened in it is a tricky subject. Whether it's all about the fun - sex and drugs and rock and roll - or things that caused deep trauma, there's a good cha...

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Feb. 13, 2024

77: Standards: Setting high expectations without the pressure.

Send us a text One of the trickiest questions for parents is how to set expectations that help our kids thrive and grow without crushing them or making them feel low self-esteem or shame. If we don't set expectations we run t...

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Feb. 6, 2024

76: What should I say about my daughter posting bikini photos on social media?

Send us a text They're everywhere. Tabloid news feeds and social media are awash with photos of girls and women in bikinis, and why not? Women's bodies are beautiful and through antiquity the female form has been admired. Yet...

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Jan. 30, 2024

75: Diet: Does my teen need to lose weight? How to navigate diet culture with Elyse Resch

Send us a text Diets, and an obsession with weight, are so much a part of Western culture that it's hardly surprising our teens can struggle to understand how to eat well. When I researched the topic for episode 9, I discover...

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Jan. 23, 2024

74: Regrets? Things we parents would do differently

Send us a text My teen daughter has told me that the fact I am open about my own failings, and quick to apologise, makes it much easier to trust me and to feel safe admitting when she's gone wrong. It's so easy to look back a...

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Jan. 16, 2024

73: Unreliable parents: The absent or inconsistent parent who’s alcoholic. Also, supporting your teen back to school.

Send us a text When the other parent is inconsistent, or never turns up for your kid, it can be incredibly challenging for both of you. It's hard enough as it is, but can be even more challenging when they are abusing a subst...

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Jan. 9, 2024

72: Back to school, third places, manners and our favourite podcasts, shows, books and apps.

Send us a text We're back with the first fresh episode of 2024. What a good time to talk about some of the things we've been reading, listening to, and watching, along with some news stories. Let us know what you think. We're...

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Dec. 31, 2023

71: New year's resolutions. Love them or loathe them the question is how can we make them work for us?

Send us a text We've all done it; new year, new me. By January the 11th the lustre has rubbed off our shiny resolutions and we're back to our old habits. The reality is that making resolutions and getting them to stick is har...

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Dec. 26, 2023

70: Presents: Why is my teen so ungrateful?

Send us a text Christmas is marketed as a time of magic and joy, but when it comes to your teenagers does it feel more like a time of pressure to deliver expensive gifts - and disappointment? One of our regular listeners has ...

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Dec. 20, 2023

69: Christmas and the holiday season. A time of family festivities or fights?

Send us a text We all have traditional times when our extended families come together to celebrate, give thanks, and share the warmth of mutual love. In the UK, December is a non-stop reel of songs about 'Simply having a wond...

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Dec. 12, 2023

68: Parenting teenagers two years on: Online, education, anxiety, consequences, and the pressures of parenting. What we've learned from the podcast.

Send us a text It's our two year anniversary, and what a ride it's been! Since we're taking a break to spend time with our families, we thought it would be the perfect time to reflect on what we think are the best things we'v...

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Dec. 5, 2023

67: Online grooming and sextortion: protecting our teens and tweens.

Send us a text The pandemic saw thousands of children moving online to learn, socialise, and play. Unfortunately, internet predators have followed them there, using highly sophisticated tactics to reach children and coerce th...

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Nov. 29, 2023

66: Eating disorders: An interview with Beat representative Umairah Malik. What we parents need to know, including warning signs, where to go for help, and practical things we can do or say that might make a difference.

Send us a text One in eight UK teenagers now suffers from an eating disorder, according to the latest figures from the UK's National Health Service. That's a shocking fifteen-fold increase since before Covid. These disorders ...

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Nov. 21, 2023

65: Parenting styles that enable teens to grow into capable adults.

Send us a text We all want the best for our kids, but there's a tricky balancing act between giving them the freedom to make the mistakes that build resiliency, and stepping in to protect and guide them. There's been a modern...

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