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Jan. 15, 2025

122: How to get our teens to love learning and why parents are the mi…

Send us a text We parents are deluding ourselves about how much our kids enjoy school, according to research for the book The Disengaged Teen. In survey responses 65% of parents thought their 10th grade kid loved school, whil...

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Jan. 8, 2025

121 Enduring sibling relationships: Why some last and others fall apa…

Send us a text There are siblings who love spending time with each other as often as possible, some tolerate it once or twice a year, and there are others who would rather eat glass than have to speak to …

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Jan. 1, 2025

120: New Year 2025, resolutions, stress, being more fun, most interes…

Send us a text MAKING RESOLUTIONS: https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/70-new-years-resolutions-love-them-or-loathe-them-the-question-is-how-can-we-make-them-work-for-u/ https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/blog/Be-the-person-yo...

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Dec. 23, 2024

119: Family gatherings without the fireworks, and staying connected w…

Send us a text Connection is at the root of human happiness, but staying connected through the turbulent teens and keeping family traditions and gatherings positive can be a challenge. In this episode we help Helen with her q...

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Dec. 18, 2024

118: Suicide: How to talk about it with teens, and offer proper suppo…

Send us a text In a recent column in The Times, Caitlin Moran wrote about how five young men in her social circle have taken their lives in the past 18 months. She's not alone. My daughter has experienced this, …

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Dec. 11, 2024

117: Support: It takes a village to raise a child... as long they do …

Send us a text So many of us bemoan the loss of a village, but do we really know what we mean by that? Being in a village or community requires us to give as well as take; often not …

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Dec. 4, 2024

116: Girls: Talking with teens about beauty standards, entitlement an…

Send us a text Encouraging our kids to make the most of themselves is a vital job for parents, but how do we talk with girls about the barriers they face? From the subtle expectation that girls and women be …

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Nov. 27, 2024

115: Cancel culture. Bullying or bravery?

Send us a text The suicide of a young man at Oxford University has prompted a warning letter to the UK Government about 'cancel culture' on campus. The review into his death 'identified evidence of a concerning practice of so...

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Nov. 20, 2024

114: Friendships, frenemies and banter. What to expect and why.

Send us a text Friendships, and fitting, in are everything to teenagers. You could argue that understanding the dynamics, and supporting our kids through the turmoil of the teen years, is one of the best things we parents can...

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Nov. 13, 2024

113: The damage of an emotionally immature parent

Send us a text If we genuinely think about how many of us are emotionally mature before we become parents the number is probably pretty low. The act of caring for someone else, and having to manage our own feelings, …

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Nov. 6, 2024

112: Masculinity and image: the Looksmaxxing hashtag that boys follow…

Send us a text What we see on TikTok often starts on message boards in fringe groups then spills over into the mainstream. This is true of the Looksmaxxing social media trend that's been gaining more and more currency among …

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Oct. 30, 2024

111: Boundaries: How to set them and why they’re so important.

Send us a text Boundaries exist, regardless of whether we're conscious of them or not. The first place we experience them is in our own home, and the way they are created, managed and enforced can set us up for …

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Oct. 23, 2024

110: Motivation: How to motivate your teenager. An interview with emi…

Send us a text When kids hit puberty they become driven by a core motivation that many of us adults don't fully appreciate. It's not simply fun, or sex; they're looking for experiences that give them social status and respect...

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Oct. 16, 2024

109: Stress - the major health issue for parents in our 'culture of c…

Send us a text Over the last decade, parents have been consistently more likely to report experiencing high levels of stress compared to other adults, according to a report issued by the US Surgeon General, Dr Vivek Murthy. A...

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Oct. 9, 2024

108: How to parent complex kids with ADHD or other differences

Send us a text How to parent kids who struggle with ADHD, anxiety and life Nobody wants their child to struggle, but it's inevitable at some point. Many of the problems our kids face will be part of a well-worn …

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Oct. 2, 2024

107: The hardest part of parenting a teen? We discuss the 18-22 year …

Send us a text A recent Tweet focused my mind on something I've only really glimpsed with a side-eye. We hear so much about the challenges of the early teen years that it's easy to forget young adults have their …

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Sept. 25, 2024

106: Therapy. Should all teens get it? Also, do boys actually need ma…

Send us a text When an anonymous listener posted this question we thought it would be a great topic to discuss; one that many of our listeners could be wondering about. The listener said, Hello, I absolutely love your podcast...

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Sept. 18, 2024

105: How grades harm school students and what we parents can do about…

Send us a text Grades are used in education the world over, but why? With the growing mental health crisis in teenagers I've been exploring how experts are asking whether perhaps it's time we looked again at the role grades …

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Sept. 11, 2024

104: Teen weight and body image: Mother and daughter explore the issu…

Send us a text As your child turns from a tween to a teen it's obvious to everyone that their body and mind are undergoing massive changes. It's destablising for our kids and can be very uncomfortable for us parents …

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Sept. 4, 2024

103: Festival tips - straight from the mouths of teenagers.

Send us a text Music festivals are a rite of passage for many teens. Whilst some love the music, the lack of restriction and opportunities to mingle in a way that they could have only dreamt of during Covid, others …

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Aug. 28, 2024

102 Grades. Our obsession with them fails everyone. An interview with…

Send us a text What is school for, and are exam grades a good measure of a human? Does someone's grades tell us what we should know, or are we being misled? Do grades help children grow and engage with …

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Aug. 21, 2024

101: Driving lessons - Top tips for a smooth road ahead

Send us a text Whether your teen is currently learning to drive, or those days are in the future, it helps to prepare ahead. Both Rachel and Susie have teens learning, so it's a great time for Rachel to go …

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Aug. 14, 2024

100: Rachel's top ten lessons to celebrate 100 episodes!

Send us a text It doesn't matter how much we know, and how much we work at it, we'll all struggle to parent well at times; it's just part of being human. To mark the 100th episode of the podcast …

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Aug. 7, 2024

99: Exams: how to cope with boys who fail them and seem apathetic. Em…

Send us a text In the West, we tend to see success for late teens as passing exams, getting into further education or getting a job, and moving on with life. So when we received an email from a mother, …

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