WINNER of the Best Parenting Podcast 2024 Independent Podcast Awards!

Videos

July 23, 2023

49: Snapchat addiction; the app that's a fantastic way to connect, or a cynical exploitation of y...

Snapchat has become a must-have for most teens, because it's now the way they stay in touch with their friends. The filters make it fun, they can see where their friends are on Snapmaps, and the instant photos give them a quick and easy contact point. But one of our…

View more
July 17, 2023

Helping tween and teen girls become allies; advice from expert Kim McCabe. | Teenagers Untangled...

We've all heard about mean girls, and girl drama, but is it inevitable, or are there things we can be doing to prevent it? Kim McCabe is an expert on teen and tween girl development who runs a programme called Rites for Girls which coaches groups of tweens and teens…

View more
July 17, 2023

One fantastic thing parents can do to bond with their teen.

Kim McCabe is an expert on teen and tween girl development who runs a programme called Rites for Girls which coaches groups of tweens and teens to help them learn how to support each other, and act as allies, rather than resorting to less pleasant ways to feel safe. #teen…

View more
July 13, 2023

48: Teen/tween girl drama could be avoided if they’re taught how to become allies: an interview w...

We've all heard about mean girls, and girl drama, but is it inevitable, or are there things we can be doing to prevent it? Kim McCabe is an expert on teen and tween girl development who runs a programme called Rites for Girls which coaches groups of tweens and teens…

View more
July 12, 2023

46 Feeding your teen; control issues and Bigorexia. | Teenagers Untangled - Parenting tips from...

Boys and men who display a muscular physique that's 'ripped', or 'cut' get more likes and shares than other accounts on social media, so the algorithms behind the platforms are feeding a strong trend in muscle building amongst teen boys. But who ends up feeding the ravenously hungry, and is…

View more
July 11, 2023

Feeding teen boys who're working out in the gym.

Boys and men who display a muscular physique that's 'ripped', or 'cut' get more likes and shares than other accounts on social media, so the algorithms behind the platforms are feeding a strong trend in muscle building amongst teen boys. But who ends up feeding the ravenously hungry, and is…

View more
July 9, 2023

47: Teens eating everything in the house, muscle building, and Bigorexia.

Boys and men who display a muscular physique that's 'ripped', or 'cut' get more likes and shares than other accounts on social media, so the algorithms behind the platforms are feeding a strong trend in muscle building amongst teen boys. But who ends up feeding the ravenously hungry, and is…

View more
July 2, 2023

46: Anger issues: tips for dealing with an explosive and angry teen.

We all loose our cool sometimes. but teenagers can find it particularly challenging to stay calm or calm down when enraged. It takes self-awareness and skill, and a level of brain development that just isn't there for some of them. One listener contacted us for help with her son who…

View more
July 1, 2023

Toxic masculinity, and supporting our teenage boys with Mike Nicholson from Progressive Masculinity

The term toxic masculinity has been gaining traction, and is often used to talk about the type of masculinity where men use dominance, violence and control to gain power and superiority over others. There's also been an increase in efforts to educate boys in how to talk more about their…

View more
June 25, 2023

45: Masculinity, and positive ways of supporting our teenage boys: An interview with Mike Nichols...

The term toxic masculinity has been gaining traction, and is often used to talk about the type of masculinity where men use dominance, violence and control to gain power and superiority over others. There's also been an increase in efforts to educate boys in how to talk more about their…

View more
June 18, 2023

44: Introducing your new partner to your teen.

What's better than falling in love again, particularly after a divorce or breakdown of a previous relationship? If you've managed to find someone special in the messy tangle of life as a parent it can feel like a miracle, but your teen may not be anywhere near as enthusiastic about…

View more
June 16, 2023

Masculinity, and teen boys.

I've just had a fascinating conversation with Mike Nicholson at Progressive Masculinity UK. He says many boys he talks to have places and people they can go to for help. What they lack is the skills to ask, because they've never seen a man they admire ask for help. Why…

View more
June 11, 2023

43: Risk-taking teens; the good news about bad behaviour.

We all know that teenagers need their friends, and spending time with others protects against anxiety and all sorts of other mental health problems. At the same time, groups of teens are far more likely to take risks and behave in a delinquent manner, which is what one of our…

View more
June 7, 2023

Teenagers Untangled: Who we are and how you can use the podcast.

Support the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/teenagersuntangled) Thanks for listening. Please hit the follow button if you like our podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star…

View more
June 5, 2023

Social media, and how to help your teens be their best selves online.

We parents often struggle with our fears about how to protect our teens when they're online. So when I received the book for teenagers, 'Clicks; How to be Your Best Self Online', I read it cover to cover. It's a great book to give your teens to help them navigate…

View more
June 5, 2023

42: Social media, and how to help your teens be their best selves online, with Natasha Devon MBE

An interview with Natasha Devon MBE: We parents often struggle with our fears about how to protect our teens when they're online. So when I received Natasha’s book written for teenagers, 'Clicks; How to be Your Best Self Online', I read it cover to cover. It's a great book to…

View more
May 31, 2023

41: Sleep; the free fix for our teens with no side effects.

Everything seems better when we've had enough sleep; our mood is more stable, our response times are faster, we can control our impulses more easily, and perform tasks more effectively. For teenagers, who are growing rapidly and whose brains are going through a massive rewiring, that need for sleep is…

View more
May 10, 2023

Conflict resolution for parents and... well anyone really.

Conflict is normal - but it often escalates during teenage years because our kids are trying to assert their own wishes, and probably aren't very skilled at it. As parents, it's easy to fall into classic conflict traps if we don't have the skills for resolving disagreements. In this episode…

View more
May 9, 2023

40: Conflict resolution skills can deepen your relationship with your teen; here's how.

Conflict is normal - but it often escalates during teenage years because our kids are trying to assert their own wishes, and probably aren't very skilled at it. As parents, it's easy to fall into classic conflict traps if we don't have the skills for resolving disagreements. In this episode…

View more
April 28, 2023

39: Exam revision - Parenting through the pressure.

It's pre-exam time of year again, and oh boy it's tough for our teens. Does yours have a colour-coded revision schedule, carefully-timed breaks, and a confident spring in their step? Maybe they don't seem to be doing enough revision, and you're the one panicking? Or are they losing their sh##…

View more
April 17, 2023

38: Early relationships and sex: the issues and rules to talk through with your teen.

Most first world countries agree that the age of consent is around sixteen, but teenagers don't suddenly awake to their sexuality on their sixteenth birthday. Sexual feelings and interest can start much younger, well before they’re able to understand the implications. One mother has asked us to talk about the…

View more
March 26, 2023

38: Teachers: how, and why, we should talk to our teenager's teachers.

We all want our kids to do well at school, but when they become teenagers there's a tendency for both schools and parents to ease back on communication. The schools tend to be much bigger and our teens are trying desperately to distance themselves from parental control and show that…

View more
March 16, 2023

37: Over-reactions: How to not overreact.

Nobody likes blowing a fuse when their teen does something that triggers them, but we all do it at some point. Nicky asked us to discuss this topic after she felt she'd overreacted to bad feedback from her son's teachers. We know it fixes nothing and leaves us feeling worse…

View more
March 2, 2023

36: The pressures of parenting, and techniques that help reduce the stress.

The stress of parenting doesn’t go away when they’re teenagers, it just changes. We may have more physical space, but finding mental space can often feel impossible. In this episode we talk about the tools we can use to manage parenting stress, and why paying attention to our own health…

View more