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Oct. 31, 2024

Point to your child’s North star until they can see it for themself.

How Your Mindset Can Unlock Your Teen's Motivation It's easy for us parents to fall into the trap of believing that teenagers are inherently short-sighted, illogical, and incapable of making wise decisions. So many of things they do seem to back u…

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Oct. 17, 2024

Our ‘culture of comparison’ is a key factor in the damaging levels of stress experienced by parents

41% of parents and caregivers say they are so stressed they cannot function most days." This was in the report, Parents Under Pressure, issued by the US Surgeon General Dr Vivek Murthy". Some of the key factors outlined in the report include things…

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Oct. 3, 2024

Moving Up and Moving Out: The empty nest and the terrible eighteen to twenty two's

One of my husband’s long standing friends moved to Florida when he graduated, but he always stays with us when he’s in the UK. His daughters were home-schooled and we’ve vaguely followed their progress all the way to the latest sta…

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Sept. 14, 2024

Insider Tips for Surviving Your Teen's First Music Festival

I never went to a festival as a teen. I didn’t have any money, and I didn’t know anyone else who did. Still, I did some pretty ‘exciting’ things at the age my kids went to their first festival alone. I was sixteen when I mov…

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Aug. 25, 2024

The top ten parenting tips I've learned while making this podcast

I began this podcast in December of the year my youngest was 13. To be honest, if my friend hadn't told me she needed me to make a podcast to help her it simply wouldn't have occurred to me to start one. Yes, my skillset is audio/visual and present…

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July 6, 2024

Six sixteen-year-old girls answer your questions

I've had the immense privilege of hosting a bunch of girls for five days, being entrusted to listen in on the highs and lows of their lives. It prompted me to ask listeners who follow me on Instagram what they would like to know. The questions were …

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March 1, 2024

Fearless parenting

The 'do hard things', or 'less validation' model. The whole point of my podcast is to hand back some agency to parents who've grown accustomed to thinking they don't really know what they're doing, or that they know exactly what they're doing and w…

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Feb. 22, 2024

Setting expectations without piling on the pressure

Every loving parent wants their kid to succeed and be happy. The difficulty is that success and happiness are ephemeral concepts.  Sure, there are lots of books and articles about children who’ve achieved great things, and the parents tha…

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Jan. 17, 2024

Ch, ch, ch, ch, changes: Be the person you want to be, not the person others think you should be, and take time to appreciate all of your wins.

If you recognise the song from my title then you may well be as old as I am, which means we've had a lot of time to evolve over the years. Still, making changes that stick is so difficult that it's a wonder many of us begin afresh every new year wit…

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Dec. 21, 2023

Mobile phones, social media, and online access. What I would do if I had my teens or tweens again.

This blog is long, but it's my attempt to give you the best I know in understanding how to approach this as a parent. I've broken it into sections and highlighted some messages in bold so they're easier to scan. I'm going to start by summarising my…

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