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Parenting Teenagers Untangled for Fearless Parents: Fear less, wonder more
Parenting Teenagers Untangled for Fearless Parents: Fear le…
Winner Best Parenting Podcast and rated in the top 2% worldwide Fearless parenting is about less fear and more wonder. Instead of fearing you're a bad parent wonder why you're having arguments with your child and ask them what ideas they have to solve the friction. Rather than feeling miserable, wonder what's causing the misery. Unless it's vital, stop doing it. Nobody benefits from being in a home with a miserable parent. If you're finding a parenting idea particularly challenging, wonder if there's a different way that will work better for your family. This is why I'm different. I don't tell parents what to do. I help you see your teenager, and yourself, differently. When you learn to fear less and wonder more about what's happening that's when better parenting becomes the natural next step. I'm Rachel Richards, Teen Parenting Specialist, former BBC Correspondent, CNBC Europe World News Anchor and mum of four.
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You're doing better than you think

"oh my gosh Rachel your podcast episode today could not have come on a better day thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️ and then to make it even more miraculous the example that you gave in the end…"

Pippa | Jan. 26, 2026

Info is exceptional, the guests always great and vitally the audio is clear.

"Greetings from Italy I am a single dad with a 12 year old son. Your podcast is incredibly useful in helping us. Info is exceptional, the guests always great and vitally the audio is clear. A prof…"

Antonio and son | Feb. 3, 2026

An Inspiration

"I found your podcast only a few months ago and have listened to almost every episode since. It has been a wealth of information and support and such a calming voice to listen to on my daily commute. …"

Steph | Dec. 5, 2025

A lifeline for parents whilst being entertaining & fun!

"Brilliant! A lifeline for tricky parenting situations. Sanity saving, emotional parent support delivered in a warm & fun way. You have made such a difference to my parenting. I’m still on …"

East Devon Mum | Oct. 22, 2025

Really loved the episode: Lessons in Parenting from Adult Kids Who Go No Contact # 156

"I wanted to write to you to say how much I resonated with your episode about estranged parents and children. Your guest beautifully articulated the role of a parent to love children exactly as th…"

Via Threads | Oct. 19, 2025

I can't believe I'm just discovering it.

"Hello! I'd like to say how awesome your podcast is. Wow, I can't believe I'm just discovering it. I sure could of used it 4 yrs ago probably. I've listened to around 15 episodes so far and it has bee…"

Kimberley | Sept. 25, 2025

Thank you

"Subject: Thank You Rachel and Susie, you are both amazing. I discovered your podcast a number of years ago, right when you first started, at a time when I was struggling to be an effective and …"

Bernie | Aug. 14, 2025

So helpful

"I wanted to thank you and your girls for the podcast you did on Reading festival. As the parent of a first time festival goer it has been so helpful. All the advice for me and my son, but it just mad…"

Anna | Aug. 18, 2025

Every parent should listen

"I have gained so many insights into being a parent, what my teens are going through and what they’re likely to go through. It’s reinforced my views but also given me a new perspective on what I could…"

DFlares | Aug. 22, 2025

Breath of fresh air

"Your latest episode with your girls was such a breath of fresh air—sniffles and all! Hearing Amelia power through a bad cold to talk about body changes and early puberty was heartwarming, and your ho…"

Kelly | July 8, 2025

Super helpful - shame I didn’t know about you sooner

"I have listened to practically every episode. I specifically appreciate that you have done the time consuming work of reading the books and doing the research and just give us the main take aways. V…"

Anonymous | June 12, 2025

I had to stop unpacking my shopping when the episode finished to email you to tell you how wonderful it was!

"Dear Rachel, I have just listened to your episode of Teenagers Untangled no 139 on starting secondary school, featuring your two daughters. I had to stop unpacking my shopping when the episod…"

Juliette | May 15, 2025

Life changing

"Ever since I came across your podcast I have been listening, taking notes, rewinding, pausing and sharing with friends! After listening to about 3 episodes a day to catch up, I have made some minor…"

Halle | April 11, 2025

You have saved my relationship with my 14 year old daughter and nearly 12 year old son on numerous occasions.

"My son is now doing really well in all areas and has not bothered to return to the internet - social media or gaming, but instead fills his spare time with sport, outdoor activity, catching up with f…"

Bernie via email | Sept. 4, 2023

You have changed our world and you will never really know how indebted we are to you.

"Thank you, thank you, thank you.....my wife and I just wish we had discovered your pod casts a year ago! We have both listened, absorbed and changed the way we parent off the back of such amazing ins…"

Paul Simmonds Instagram | July 5, 2023

May have saved my relationship with my tween..

"I found this podcast at just the right time in the early stages of tween/girl mom dysfunction. It gave me the perspective change I needed… she’s right where she’s supposed to be! Thank you."

Mmonty3 | Feb. 20, 2024

It’s all just a little less daunting now with you guys in my corner

"I was so lucky to come across your podcast last Summer whilst trying to navigate guidance to help with my now 17yr old son who has ADHD. I have since then backtracked and listened to EVERY single ep…"

Tammy | March 24, 2024

I just didn’t want to stop listening to you!!!!

"Hello there lovely sounding ladies!! I stumbled on your podcast just last weekend, down at the bottom of New Zealand, while out walking , -in tears, having just had the worst week or so with my a…"

Becky from Queenstown | May 10, 2024

Your values episode was wonderful!

"Dearest Rachel, I loved your episode and was so moved by how you went into each issue and so sensitively unpicked the problems and helped me make sense of them. You are amazing and I cannot thank …"

Anonymous listener | June 26, 2024

Avid listener

"I am an avid listener of your podcast. I am so glad I stumbled across this when my eldest daughter went to Secondary School as the teenage years seemed so overwhelming as they push for more and more …"

Michelle | Sept. 17, 2024

I’m listening to each episode at least 3-4 times.

"Woww. I'm actually taking notes and writing down stuff so I can remember to use them with my own son. The part where you apologize for giving them too much freedom when they obviously were not ready …"

DhariniDiva on Spotify | Sept. 20, 2024

Thank you for being there

"I just wanted to say a massive thank you for being there for parents of teenagers every week. Not only do I look forward to each episode but also have listened to many of the shows more that a ha…"

Kate on Instagram | Dec. 10, 2024

You have managed to completely change my mindset.

"I love listening to your podcasts on my way home from work. You have managed to completely change my mindset from dreading the teenage years ahead of me, to actually seeing them as something to embr…"

Clare via email | Jan. 6, 2025

Thank you!

"I've come back to this podcast recently and been reminded just how helpful and healing it is. Makes me also realise what massive mistakes I've made and wish I could go back to the start of my parenti…"

Anjali | June 23, 2026

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About the Hosts

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Rachel Richards

Host

I've worked as a BBC Correspondent, a World News Anchor for CNBC Europe and a Parenting Supercoach for Parent Gym, supporting parents in the most deprived boroughs of London.

I'm the mother of two bonus-daughters, now in their twenties, two teenagers, and married to the most amazing, but messy, man. I live in a Tudor house in the UK countryside, walk my two cockapoos daily and read voraciously.

My main purpose in making this podcast is my desire to break negative family cycles so I can understand and parent my own teens better.

I'm a lover of yoga, jogging, hiking, skiing, flying, reading, music, and all types of adventurous travel.

Originally born in Zambia, I'd lived in six different countries by the age of ten and thank my lucky stars to have settled in the UK.

Most of all I am loving the opportunity to give back for all the good fortune I've had in my life.

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Susie Asli

Co-host

https://www.amindful-life.co.uk
Susie started practising mindfulness over a decade ago, after a particularly stressful time in her life. It was so effective that she decided to train in Mindfulness with the NHS and the Mindfulness in Schools project to become a Paws b and dot b practitioner, which enables her to teach mindfulness both to primary and secondary school children.

Susie teaches adult groups, 1:1s, families, in schools (children & teachers) and students (at the Guildhall College of Music & Drama).

She's also a qualified psychotherapist (from the Psychotherapeutic Institute in Copenhagen) and a trained musician (working and playing as a freelance viola player and chamber musician, as well as teaching children and adults).

Susie is mum to three children whom she has parented alone for 12 years