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I cannot thank you both enough for your podcasts.

"It has literally been my saving grace. My daughter is 12 and a half, and navigating the dramatic overnight change from baby girl to tween has been tricky. I am naturally reactive and your podcasts ha…"

Gabby | June 15, 2022

To say you've been a lifesaver is an understatement.

"I just want to say a huge than you to both of you. I have 2 teenagers (girl and boy) and struggle without a support network as I live in Istanbul, far from family and in a culture that doesn't discus…"

clrdmn, Instagram | Dec. 16, 2022

Just what I needed!

"I spent ages trying to "fix" my teenager when I stumbled across these podcasts and discovered they don't need fixing but understanding. You have helped me understand my daughter and be able to tal…"

Yanika Leaney | March 22, 2023

You have changed our world and you will never really know how indebted we are to you.

"Thank you, thank you, thank you.....my wife and I just wish we had discovered your pod casts a year ago! We have both listened, absorbed and changed the way we parent off the back of such amazing ins…"

Paul Simmonds Instagram | July 5, 2023

Snapchat: I listened to the podcast twice, then sat and listened to it with my son.

"I listened to the podcast twice this morning during my run and then I sat and listened to it with my son. Pausing it at times to discuss. He admitted he was addicted to the Snapchat score or whatever…"

minibrightsparks on Instagram | July 25, 2023

So glad I found this podcast.. spread the word!

"Hi ladies- I started listening to your podcast a while ago and I think I’ve listened to all episodes (some twice!!) and I really feel like you are helping me through this exceptionally trickery time …"

Sinead | July 31, 2023

You have saved my relationship with my 14 year old daughter and nearly 12 year old son on numerous occasions.

"My son is now doing really well in all areas and has not bothered to return to the internet - social media or gaming, but instead fills his spare time with sport, outdoor activity, catching up with f…"

Bernie via email | Sept. 4, 2023

The best I have come across

"I listen to your show on Spotify. I love your approach. Thank you for guiding me through parenthood. Keep up the good work. Your podcast is the best I have come across. ❤️❤️❤️"

Eleni Sidera on Instagram | Nov. 1, 2023

Finding a community

"I absolutely loved this episode, so many great nuggets, curiosity over judgement - will apply to finding why my teenage bonus son is doing a bare minimum at school and try to build stronger relations…"

Wellbeingjournaling | Jan. 25, 2024

May have saved my relationship with my tween..

"I found this podcast at just the right time in the early stages of tween/girl mom dysfunction. It gave me the perspective change I needed… she’s right where she’s supposed to be! Thank you."

Mmonty3 | Feb. 20, 2024

It’s all just a little less daunting now with you guys in my corner

"I was so lucky to come across your podcast last Summer whilst trying to navigate guidance to help with my now 17yr old son who has ADHD. I have since then backtracked and listened to EVERY single ep…"

Tammy | March 24, 2024

I just didn’t want to stop listening to you!!!!

"Hello there lovely sounding ladies!! I stumbled on your podcast just last weekend, down at the bottom of New Zealand, while out walking , -in tears, having just had the worst week or so with my a…"

Becky from Queenstown | May 10, 2024

It triggered a rich conversation between us.

"This morning while driving my stepson ( Bonus Son like you lovely say) to one of his GSCE exams, we listened to the FOMO episode. We both enjoyed it very much and it triggered a rich conversation bet…"

Véronique via WhatsApp | May 15, 2024

Your values episode was wonderful!

"Dearest Rachel, I loved your episode and was so moved by how you went into each issue and so sensitively unpicked the problems and helped me make sense of them. You are amazing and I cannot thank …"

Anonymous listener | June 26, 2024

Absolutely fantastic

"Hi Rachel, Firstly I have to say, I’ve just started listening to your podcasts, and they are absolutely fantastic - thank you so much for all the insights, even if I retain a small amount of the h…"

Phillipa | July 17, 2024

So many wonderful insights: Gaining weight and teen self image

"Your daughters are delightful and the apple didn't fall far from the tree. So many wonderful insights in this conversation. I'd also like to point out just how important conversations are around fo…"

Le Boatwood on Facebook | Sept. 12, 2024

Avid listener

"I am an avid listener of your podcast. I am so glad I stumbled across this when my eldest daughter went to Secondary School as the teenage years seemed so overwhelming as they push for more and more …"

Michelle | Sept. 17, 2024

I’m listening to each episode at least 3-4 times.

"Woww. I'm actually taking notes and writing down stuff so I can remember to use them with my own son. The part where you apologize for giving them too much freedom when they obviously were not ready …"

DhariniDiva on Spotify | Sept. 20, 2024

Thank you for being there

"I just wanted to say a massive thank you for being there for parents of teenagers every week. Not only do I look forward to each episode but also have listened to many of the shows more that a ha…"

Kate on Instagram | Dec. 10, 2024

You have managed to completely change my mindset.

"I love listening to your podcasts on my way home from work. You have managed to completely change my mindset from dreading the teenage years ahead of me, to actually seeing them as something to embr…"

Clare via email | Jan. 6, 2025

Amazing

"Incredible podcast"

hellofromtheorher | Jan. 29, 2025

Loved this episode: Worries about skin care obsessions

"I listened this morning on the way from school drop-off to my client's house. Will be listening with my tween, again, when she reutrns from camp. Understanding the why, thinking about wanting to …"

Tara via Facebook | Feb. 20, 2025

Finally, I've found someone who understands and talks sense.

"Hi, I've just recently found you and just want to say thank you. We have chatted through messages and voice notes and what I learn in here for my boys will also help my 10 year old girl as she grows.…"

Kathrynlouisemac via Spotify | Jan. 30, 2025

Everything to do with "being connected" helps at every stage

"I really love your podcast and have recommended it at least 10 times to fellow parents. It has given me understanding, patience, tools, calmness. I feel much better equipped and my relationship with …"

Katy via email | Jan. 30, 2025

Recent

March 18, 2025

134: Are we too cynical? Helping our kids see hope in a world of cyni…

Send us a text Twenty years ago The Times asked young people in Britain a series of questions. The new Millenials gave answers which showed that the majority thought the UK was forward-looking and tolerant; they were proud to...

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March 10, 2025

133: How to plan ahead for an empty nest that's full of possibility

Send us a text Empty nest syndrome is real, and can be very painful to navigate. I've already discussed it with Susie, including ideas for how we can manage our feelings in a positive way to help us move on. https://www.teena...

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March 4, 2025

132: Work: What we parents can do to help our kids end up with a mean…

Send us a text Another day another newspaper headline that says young people aren't working. According to the Financial Times newspaper, 13.4 per cent of people in the United Kingdon in the 16 to 24 age group were not in empl...

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Feb. 25, 2025

131: Culture clash: When the ‘black sheep’ of the family forces us to…

Send us a text Parenting is a hard enough, but doing it in a culture that is different from the one we grew up in creates an extra layer of challenges to navigate. When it's our kids who have the greatest connection to that n...

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Feb. 18, 2025

130: Worries about skin care obsessions? The social media 'Sephora' k…

Send us a text Most teens go through a phase of being hyper-focused on looking good; whether it's clothes, bodybuilding, skin-care or makeup. What can seem like an obsession could be a normal part of the process, so when shou...

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Feb. 11, 2025

129: Parenting stages: Coaching and mentoring teens and young adults

Send us a text Before I had kids I literally had no real idea of what I should expect. I think that's partly why I have spent the years as a mother panicking and reading everything; having learnt that I was wrong about how co...

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Feb. 4, 2025

128: Supercharge your teen's life skills with a working holiday.

Send us a text Sponsored by JENZA Positively life changing is how I would sum up the time I spent working abroad during my gap year. I met people with a completely different world view, different language, and learnt to navig...

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Jan. 29, 2025

It's not selfish for parents to take time out. #podcast #parentcommun…

It's one thing to get advice on how to parent, it's another to have independent studies that give real evidence on how well one approach works rather than another. So when Matilda Gosling who’s a social scientist specialising in social psychology and issues affecting children and young people told…

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Jan. 28, 2025

127: How to be a good parent to teenagers, using evidence. An intervi…

Send us a text It's one thing to get advice on how to parent, it's another to have independent studies that give real evidence on how well one approach works rather than another. Faced with raising two young kids in a COVID l...

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Recent Blog Posts

Oct. 31, 2024

Point to your child’s North star until they can see it for themself.

How Your Mindset Can Unlock Your Teen's Motivation It's easy for us parents to fall into the trap of believing that teenagers are inherently short-sighted, illogical, and incapable of making wise decisions. So many of things they do seem to back u…

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Oct. 17, 2024

Our ‘culture of comparison’ is a key factor in the damaging levels of…

41% of parents and caregivers say they are so stressed they cannot function most days." This was in the report, Parents Under Pressure, issued by the US Surgeon General Dr Vivek Murthy". Some of the key factors outlined in the report include things…

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Oct. 3, 2024

Moving Up and Moving Out: The empty nest and the terrible eighteen to…

One of my husband’s long standing friends moved to Florida when he graduated, but he always stays with us when he’s in the UK. His daughters were home-schooled and we’ve vaguely followed their progress all the way to the latest sta…

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About the Hosts

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Rachel Richards

Host

My main career was as a BBC Correspondent, World News Anchor for CNBC Europe, BBC World New Radio, and roving reporter/newsreader on local radio.

I’ve always been fascinated by parenting so loved being a Parenting Supercoach for Parent Gym, working in the most deprived boroughs of London.

I’m now the mother of two step-daughters and two teenagers. A failed dog-trainer (you try it in a house where everyone else gives them cheese) and terrible, but enthusiastic, gardener. I’m a long time lover of Ashtanga yoga, jogging, hiking, skiing, reading, music, and all types of adventurous travel.

I was born in Zambia and lived in six different countries by the age of ten, before settling in the UK.

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Susie Asli

Co-host

https://www.amindful-life.co.uk
Susie started practising mindfulness over a decade ago, after a particularly stressful time in her life. It was so effective that she decided to train in Mindfulness with the NHS and the Mindfulness in Schools project to become a Paws b and dot b practitioner, which enables her to teach mindfulness both to primary and secondary school children.

Susie teaches adult groups, 1:1s, families, in schools (children & teachers) and students (at the Guildhall College of Music & Drama).

She's also a qualified psychotherapist (from the Psychotherapeutic Institute in Copenhagen) and a trained musician (working and playing as a freelance viola player and chamber musician, as well as teaching children and adults).

Susie is mum to three children whom she has parented alone for 12 years