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Parenting teenagers, untangled: The award-winning podcast for parents of teens and tweens.
Parenting teenagers, untangled: The award-winning podcast f…
Best Self-Improvement podcast & Best Parenting Podcast - Independent Podcast Awards Quit the comparison, calm your nerves, and build belief in your own ability to parent well because you don't have to be an expert to be a great parent. At the heart of great parenting is the ability to be more curious; less judgemental. Rachel uses her journalism skills to dig for answers, looking at what a broad range of experts are saying about them. Susie then brings her wealth of expertise and experience in mindfulness to the discussion as we talk through the options for parenting in an imperfect world, offering tips on the things we've learned along the way. What the Award judges said: 'The advice within the podcast on how to deal with what life throws at you is universally helpful, not just for those with teenagers.' 'A good mix of personal stories alongside professional insight; it's addressing something different, and helps its audience with the references and extra information provided in episode notes.' 'The rapport between the hosts, Rachel and Susie, is great with a good mix of them chatting, but also providing context for the listener and remembering them within the conversation.' For more discussion and tips, you can find us on Facebook and Instagram. Find courses with Susie at https://www.amindful-life.co.uk/
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Reviews

A lifeline for parents whilst being entertaining & fun!

"Brilliant! A lifeline for tricky parenting situations. Sanity saving, emotional parent support delivered in a warm & fun way. You have made such a difference to my parenting. I’m still on …"

East Devon Mum | Oct. 22, 2025

Really loved the episode: Lessons in Parenting from Adult Kids Who Go No Contact # 156

"I wanted to write to you to say how much I resonated with your episode about estranged parents and children. Your guest beautifully articulated the role of a parent to love children exactly as th…"

Via Threads | Oct. 19, 2025

I can't believe I'm just discovering it.

"Hello! I'd like to say how awesome your podcast is. Wow, I can't believe I'm just discovering it. I sure could of used it 4 yrs ago probably. I've listened to around 15 episodes so far and it has bee…"

Kimberley | Sept. 25, 2025

Thank you

"Subject: Thank You Rachel and Susie, you are both amazing. I discovered your podcast a number of years ago, right when you first started, at a time when I was struggling to be an effective and …"

Bernie | Aug. 14, 2025

So helpful

"I wanted to thank you and your girls for the podcast you did on Reading festival. As the parent of a first time festival goer it has been so helpful. All the advice for me and my son, but it just mad…"

Anna | Aug. 18, 2025

Every parent should listen

"I have gained so many insights into being a parent, what my teens are going through and what they’re likely to go through. It’s reinforced my views but also given me a new perspective on what I could…"

DFlares | Aug. 22, 2025

Breath of fresh air

"Your latest episode with your girls was such a breath of fresh air—sniffles and all! Hearing Amelia power through a bad cold to talk about body changes and early puberty was heartwarming, and your ho…"

Kelly | July 8, 2025

Super helpful - shame I didn’t know about you sooner

"I have listened to practically every episode. I specifically appreciate that you have done the time consuming work of reading the books and doing the research and just give us the main take aways. V…"

Anonymous | June 12, 2025

I had to stop unpacking my shopping when the episode finished to email you to tell you how wonderful it was!

"Dear Rachel, I have just listened to your episode of Teenagers Untangled no 139 on starting secondary school, featuring your two daughters. I had to stop unpacking my shopping when the episod…"

Juliette | May 15, 2025

Life changing

"Ever since I came across your podcast I have been listening, taking notes, rewinding, pausing and sharing with friends! After listening to about 3 episodes a day to catch up, I have made some minor…"

Halle | April 11, 2025

You have saved my relationship with my 14 year old daughter and nearly 12 year old son on numerous occasions.

"My son is now doing really well in all areas and has not bothered to return to the internet - social media or gaming, but instead fills his spare time with sport, outdoor activity, catching up with f…"

Bernie via email | Sept. 4, 2023

You have changed our world and you will never really know how indebted we are to you.

"Thank you, thank you, thank you.....my wife and I just wish we had discovered your pod casts a year ago! We have both listened, absorbed and changed the way we parent off the back of such amazing ins…"

Paul Simmonds Instagram | July 5, 2023

May have saved my relationship with my tween..

"I found this podcast at just the right time in the early stages of tween/girl mom dysfunction. It gave me the perspective change I needed… she’s right where she’s supposed to be! Thank you."

Mmonty3 | Feb. 20, 2024

It’s all just a little less daunting now with you guys in my corner

"I was so lucky to come across your podcast last Summer whilst trying to navigate guidance to help with my now 17yr old son who has ADHD. I have since then backtracked and listened to EVERY single ep…"

Tammy | March 24, 2024

I just didn’t want to stop listening to you!!!!

"Hello there lovely sounding ladies!! I stumbled on your podcast just last weekend, down at the bottom of New Zealand, while out walking , -in tears, having just had the worst week or so with my a…"

Becky from Queenstown | May 10, 2024

Your values episode was wonderful!

"Dearest Rachel, I loved your episode and was so moved by how you went into each issue and so sensitively unpicked the problems and helped me make sense of them. You are amazing and I cannot thank …"

Anonymous listener | June 26, 2024

Avid listener

"I am an avid listener of your podcast. I am so glad I stumbled across this when my eldest daughter went to Secondary School as the teenage years seemed so overwhelming as they push for more and more …"

Michelle | Sept. 17, 2024

I’m listening to each episode at least 3-4 times.

"Woww. I'm actually taking notes and writing down stuff so I can remember to use them with my own son. The part where you apologize for giving them too much freedom when they obviously were not ready …"

DhariniDiva on Spotify | Sept. 20, 2024

Thank you for being there

"I just wanted to say a massive thank you for being there for parents of teenagers every week. Not only do I look forward to each episode but also have listened to many of the shows more that a ha…"

Kate on Instagram | Dec. 10, 2024

You have managed to completely change my mindset.

"I love listening to your podcasts on my way home from work. You have managed to completely change my mindset from dreading the teenage years ahead of me, to actually seeing them as something to embr…"

Clare via email | Jan. 6, 2025

Recent

Nov. 18, 2025

Anxiety about saying what we think, and why it matters.

Ask Rachel anything Explore Worldwide Holidays - Click here for an adventure your child will never forget: 👇🏻 https://www.explore.co.uk/experiences/family-holidays?utm_source=teenagers-untangled&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=family-adventures In this episode clinical psychologist, Dr. Chl…

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Nov. 18, 2025

Why We Can't Talk About Hard Things Anymore #podcast #parenting #poli…

A 2022 poll by The New York Times uncovered what the paper called a 'Free Speech Problem' because 84 percent of American adults believe that self-censorship due to fear of retaliation is a “very serious” or “somewhat serious” problem. What's the difference between self-censorship and polite self-r…

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Nov. 16, 2025

Anxiety, finding your tribe, perfectionism & rethinking our thoughts.…

Ask Rachel anything Explore Worldwide Holidays - Click here for an adventure your child will never forget: 👇🏻 https://www.explore.co.uk/experiences/family-holidays?utm_source=teenagers-untangled&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=family-adventures Anxiety episode: https://www.teenagersuntangle…

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Nov. 12, 2025

Stop treating your teen like a second class citizen. #parenting #podc…

Surely our kids deserve as much, if not more status and respect in their own homes as they might receive elsewhere? You could also argue that it's better to offer it at home so they don't go looking for it in places you don't want them to go. When I played this interview with @byjoannaschroeder …

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Nov. 11, 2025

Talk to your boys: Masculinity, gaming, sexuality and emotions.

Ask Rachel anything Explore Worldwide Holidays - Click here for an adventure your child will never forget: 👇🏻 https://www.explore.co.uk/experiences/family-holidays?utm_source=teenagers-untangled&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=family-adventures There's so much talk about masculinity and how…

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Nov. 9, 2025

Creating an open nest, new starts, family traditions, listener questi…

Ask Rachel anything Explore Worldwide Holidays - Click here for an adventure your child will never forget: 👇🏻 https://www.explore.co.uk/experiences/family-holidays?utm_source=teenagers-untangled&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=family-adventures A little community catch-up with my nuggets of…

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Nov. 4, 2025

Is A.I. hijacking your child's growth? The parenting survival guide.

Ask Rachel anything Explore Worldwide Holidays - Click here for an adventure your child will never forget: 👇🏻 https://www.explore.co.uk/experiences/family-holidays?utm_source=teenagers-untangled&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=family-adventures "Learning is struggle, and kids need to get co…

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Nov. 3, 2025

Why Your Son Won't Open Up (And How to Fix It) #podcast #parenting

Getting to the serious conversations takes time and investment in garbage talk, according to Joanna Schroeder co-author of the new book Talk to Your Boys. As parents, it's so tempting to use every opportunity to convey our thoughts and wisdom. We worry that we might not get another chance, because…

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Oct. 29, 2025

Mental Health: Don't make your teen overthink their emotions. #podcas…

Adolescence is a time of extreme emotions, and it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind your child is going through. Matt Richtel, the Pullizer prize-winning journalist and author of How We Grow Up, explains that one of the key reasons GenZ is having mental health problems is they've become wh…

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Oct. 28, 2025

Mental health problems in teenagers. We can't just blame phones.

Ask Rachel anything Explore Worldwide Holidays - Click here for an adventure your child will never forget: 👇🏻 https://www.explore.co.uk/experiences/family-holidays?utm_source=teenagers-untangled&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=family-adventures Why is it that so many teenagers today seem to…

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Recent Blog Posts

Oct. 2, 2025

The science behid why pushing our kids doesn't help them in the long …

“It’s safe and it’s right to trust your kids more and worry about them less… give them all the support that you can, but treat them respectfully, like they have brains in their heads and want their lives to work out.&rdquo…

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Sept. 10, 2025

Teens and Screens: The 'Big Hug' Teenagers Untangled Guide for Parents

Be more Nigel (my father-in-law, not Farage) While the experts of the world battle it out to set some actual guidelines we parents are having to muddle through. In fact, my words for parenting are more ‘muddle’ and ‘ha…

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Aug. 23, 2025

Parenting lessons from adults who go no contact

How to create a relationship with our kids that flourishes rather than dies Nobody has a child and thinks, I can’t wait until the day they will no longer talk to me. Whilst it’s not a goal for any of us, there are things we might inadve…

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About the Hosts

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Rachel Richards

Host

I've worked as a BBC Correspondent, a World News Anchor for CNBC Europe and a Parenting Supercoach for Parent Gym, supporting parents in the most deprived boroughs of London.

I'm the mother of two bonus-daughters, now in their twenties, two teenagers, and married to the most amazing, but messy, man. I live in a Tudor house in the UK countryside, walk my two cockapoos daily and read voraciously.

My main purpose in making this podcast is my desire to break negative family cycles so I can understand and parent my own teens better.

I'm a lover of yoga, jogging, hiking, skiing, flying, reading, music, and all types of adventurous travel.

Originally born in Zambia, I'd lived in six different countries by the age of ten and thank my lucky stars to have settled in the UK.

Most of all I am loving the opportunity to give back for all the good fortune I've had in my life.

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Susie Asli

Co-host

https://www.amindful-life.co.uk
Susie started practising mindfulness over a decade ago, after a particularly stressful time in her life. It was so effective that she decided to train in Mindfulness with the NHS and the Mindfulness in Schools project to become a Paws b and dot b practitioner, which enables her to teach mindfulness both to primary and secondary school children.

Susie teaches adult groups, 1:1s, families, in schools (children & teachers) and students (at the Guildhall College of Music & Drama).

She's also a qualified psychotherapist (from the Psychotherapeutic Institute in Copenhagen) and a trained musician (working and playing as a freelance viola player and chamber musician, as well as teaching children and adults).

Susie is mum to three children whom she has parented alone for 12 years