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Parenting teenagers, untangled: The award-winning podcast for parents of teens and tweens.
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Best Self-Improvement podcast & Best Parenting Podcast - Independent Podcast Awards Quit the comparison, calm your nerves, and build belief in your own ability to parent well because you don't have to be an expert to be a great parent. At the heart of great parenting is the ability to be more curious; less judgemental. Rachel uses her journalism skills to dig for answers, looking at what a broad range of experts are saying about them. Susie then brings her wealth of expertise and experience in mindfulness to the discussion as we talk through the options for parenting in an imperfect world, offering tips on the things we've learned along the way. What the Award judges said: 'The advice within the podcast on how to deal with what life throws at you is universally helpful, not just for those with teenagers.' 'A good mix of personal stories alongside professional insight; it's addressing something different, and helps its audience with the references and extra information provided in episode notes.' 'The rapport between the hosts, Rachel and Susie, is great with a good mix of them chatting, but also providing context for the listener and remembering them within the conversation.' For more discussion and tips, you can find us on Facebook and Instagram. Find courses with Susie at https://www.amindful-life.co.uk/
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I can't believe I'm just discovering it.

"Hello! I'd like to say how awesome your podcast is. Wow, I can't believe I'm just discovering it. I sure could of used it 4 yrs ago probably. I've listened to around 15 episodes so far and it has bee…"

Kimberley | Sept. 25, 2025

Thank you

"Subject: Thank You Rachel and Susie, you are both amazing. I discovered your podcast a number of years ago, right when you first started, at a time when I was struggling to be an effective and …"

Bernie | Aug. 14, 2025

So helpful

"I wanted to thank you and your girls for the podcast you did on Reading festival. As the parent of a first time festival goer it has been so helpful. All the advice for me and my son, but it just mad…"

Anna | Aug. 18, 2025

Every parent should listen

"I have gained so many insights into being a parent, what my teens are going through and what they’re likely to go through. It’s reinforced my views but also given me a new perspective on what I could…"

DFlares | Aug. 22, 2025

Breath of fresh air

"Your latest episode with your girls was such a breath of fresh air—sniffles and all! Hearing Amelia power through a bad cold to talk about body changes and early puberty was heartwarming, and your ho…"

Kelly | July 8, 2025

Super helpful - shame I didn’t know about you sooner

"I have listened to practically every episode. I specifically appreciate that you have done the time consuming work of reading the books and doing the research and just give us the main take aways. V…"

Anonymous | June 12, 2025

I had to stop unpacking my shopping when the episode finished to email you to tell you how wonderful it was!

"Dear Rachel, I have just listened to your episode of Teenagers Untangled no 139 on starting secondary school, featuring your two daughters. I had to stop unpacking my shopping when the episod…"

Juliette | May 15, 2025

Life changing

"Ever since I came across your podcast I have been listening, taking notes, rewinding, pausing and sharing with friends! After listening to about 3 episodes a day to catch up, I have made some minor…"

Halle | April 11, 2025

You have saved my relationship with my 14 year old daughter and nearly 12 year old son on numerous occasions.

"My son is now doing really well in all areas and has not bothered to return to the internet - social media or gaming, but instead fills his spare time with sport, outdoor activity, catching up with f…"

Bernie via email | Sept. 4, 2023

You have changed our world and you will never really know how indebted we are to you.

"Thank you, thank you, thank you.....my wife and I just wish we had discovered your pod casts a year ago! We have both listened, absorbed and changed the way we parent off the back of such amazing ins…"

Paul Simmonds Instagram | July 5, 2023

May have saved my relationship with my tween..

"I found this podcast at just the right time in the early stages of tween/girl mom dysfunction. It gave me the perspective change I needed… she’s right where she’s supposed to be! Thank you."

Mmonty3 | Feb. 20, 2024

It’s all just a little less daunting now with you guys in my corner

"I was so lucky to come across your podcast last Summer whilst trying to navigate guidance to help with my now 17yr old son who has ADHD. I have since then backtracked and listened to EVERY single ep…"

Tammy | March 24, 2024

I just didn’t want to stop listening to you!!!!

"Hello there lovely sounding ladies!! I stumbled on your podcast just last weekend, down at the bottom of New Zealand, while out walking , -in tears, having just had the worst week or so with my a…"

Becky from Queenstown | May 10, 2024

Your values episode was wonderful!

"Dearest Rachel, I loved your episode and was so moved by how you went into each issue and so sensitively unpicked the problems and helped me make sense of them. You are amazing and I cannot thank …"

Anonymous listener | June 26, 2024

Avid listener

"I am an avid listener of your podcast. I am so glad I stumbled across this when my eldest daughter went to Secondary School as the teenage years seemed so overwhelming as they push for more and more …"

Michelle | Sept. 17, 2024

I’m listening to each episode at least 3-4 times.

"Woww. I'm actually taking notes and writing down stuff so I can remember to use them with my own son. The part where you apologize for giving them too much freedom when they obviously were not ready …"

DhariniDiva on Spotify | Sept. 20, 2024

Thank you for being there

"I just wanted to say a massive thank you for being there for parents of teenagers every week. Not only do I look forward to each episode but also have listened to many of the shows more that a ha…"

Kate on Instagram | Dec. 10, 2024

You have managed to completely change my mindset.

"I love listening to your podcasts on my way home from work. You have managed to completely change my mindset from dreading the teenage years ahead of me, to actually seeing them as something to embr…"

Clare via email | Jan. 6, 2025

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Oct. 7, 2025

Food: Fears, Fads and Eating Disorders: #podcast #parenting #diet #we…

Whatever food fears we've inherited, or learned, will be passed on to our kids unless we understand and challenge our beliefs, according to @the_food_psychologist As she rightly points out, fear-mongering about killer bars or toxic foods is way more dangerous, long-term, than the food itself. In …

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Oct. 6, 2025

Oxford University, Screen Time, Homework and Listener Letter: School …

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover? teenagersuntangled.substack.com Screen Time Study: https://psycnet.apa.org/fulltext/2026-24348-001.html Dr Naomi Fisher: https://naomifisher.co.uk/ School Avoidance: https://www.teenagersuntangled.com/school-avoidance…

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Oct. 2, 2025

The science behid why pushing our kids doesn't help them in the long …

“It’s safe and it’s right to trust your kids more and worry about them less… give them all the support that you can, but treat them respectfully, like they have brains in their heads and want their lives to work out.&rdquo…

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Sept. 30, 2025

Stop pushing your kids: The link to success, resilience, and reduced …

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover? Is your kid stressed or lacking motivation? What if the antidote was pushing them less and giving them more of a sense of control over their lives? It doesn't mean giving up your authority as a parent. As elite teen c…

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Sept. 30, 2025

Coping with big emotions #parenting #podcast #relationship

Staying calm as a parent: We've all done it. Our kid tells us how upset they are about something and it triggers our fears, so we overreact. It's incredibly hard to stay calm, not take it personally, and keep believing everything will work out fine when things seem to be going completely off trac…

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Sept. 26, 2025

What to do if my child suddenly starts swearing? Changes #podcast #pa…

When kids start senior school it can be incredibly stressful for everyone and it's easy to panic if we notice a sudden change in behaviour. We think they should be focused on getting their work done but they are hyper-focused on friendships, status and respect. One great tip, when your kid turns …

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Sept. 24, 2025

School Stress is Crushing Our Teens - Here's Why #podcast #parenting …

Tish, from Jamie's Farm, says difficult kids come to her and find their voice through being offered a sense of purpose, work on the farm, family meals, and the removal of devices. She says the school system is now so formulaic and pressured that teachers are forced to shunt kids through a curricul…

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Sept. 23, 2025

Transforming difficult, disruptive kids into ones with purpose and co…

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover? We all want our kids to feel they belong and have purpose, but what simple things can we do at home and in schools that will help them develop what they need? In this interview you'll hear so many great tips we can pu…

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Sept. 23, 2025

Transform Your Family With Positive Parenting #podcast #parenting

When the news feeds are full of negativity, and we humans already suffer a negative bias, the power of sharing positivite moments with our kids is incredible. Talking openly about the good things in the world, and taking time to share positivity with our kids, can have a dramatic impact on their o…

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Sept. 16, 2025

Conflict resolution skills for parents. Vintage

What do you think of this episode? Do you have any topics you'd like me to cover? Conflict is normal - but it often escalates during teenage years because our kids are trying to assert their own wishes, and probably aren't very skilled at it. As parents, it's easy to fall into classic conflict trap…

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Oct. 2, 2025

The science behid why pushing our kids doesn't help them in the long …

“It’s safe and it’s right to trust your kids more and worry about them less… give them all the support that you can, but treat them respectfully, like they have brains in their heads and want their lives to work out.&rdquo…

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Sept. 10, 2025

Teens and Screens: The 'Big Hug' Teenagers Untangled Guide for Parents

Be more Nigel (my father-in-law, not Farage) While the experts of the world battle it out to set some actual guidelines we parents are having to muddle through. In fact, my words for parenting are more ‘muddle’ and ‘ha…

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Aug. 23, 2025

Parenting lessons from adults who go no contact

How to create a relationship with our kids that flourishes rather than dies Nobody has a child and thinks, I can’t wait until the day they will no longer talk to me. Whilst it’s not a goal for any of us, there are things we might inadve…

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About the Hosts

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Rachel Richards

Host

I've worked as a BBC Correspondent, a World News Anchor for CNBC Europe and a Parenting Supercoach for Parent Gym, supporting parents in the most deprived boroughs of London.

I'm the mother of two bonus-daughters, now in their twenties, two teenagers, and married to the most amazing, but messy, man. I live in a Tudor house in the UK countryside, walk my two cockapoos daily and read voraciously.

My main purpose in making this podcast is my desire to break negative family cycles so I can understand and parent my own teens better.

I'm a lover of yoga, jogging, hiking, skiing, flying, reading, music, and all types of adventurous travel.

Originally born in Zambia, I'd lived in six different countries by the age of ten and thank my lucky stars to have settled in the UK.

Most of all I am loving the opportunity to give back for all the good fortune I've had in my life.

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Susie Asli

Co-host

https://www.amindful-life.co.uk
Susie started practising mindfulness over a decade ago, after a particularly stressful time in her life. It was so effective that she decided to train in Mindfulness with the NHS and the Mindfulness in Schools project to become a Paws b and dot b practitioner, which enables her to teach mindfulness both to primary and secondary school children.

Susie teaches adult groups, 1:1s, families, in schools (children & teachers) and students (at the Guildhall College of Music & Drama).

She's also a qualified psychotherapist (from the Psychotherapeutic Institute in Copenhagen) and a trained musician (working and playing as a freelance viola player and chamber musician, as well as teaching children and adults).

Susie is mum to three children whom she has parented alone for 12 years